This is Part 3 and the final Part of M & M. In Part 1, we looked into the personalities of Mary and Martha as described in Luke 10:38 – 42, with Martha the busy body, who wanted to impress Jesus, and Mary taking the wise option to rest at Jesus’ feet and take in what He had to offer, spiritually. Part 2 looked at how we relate to the personalities of Mary and Martha and how we should choose to spend more time with Jesus. Part 3 will look more into deepening our relationship with Jesus. If you missed Part 1 and 2, please click here!
We so often look for advice in the things of the world, when in fact we should first seek God. It says in James 1:5 that if we lack wisdom, we should ask it from God, who gives freely. Yet, we consistently try to solve issues in our own strength, rather than go to Him first in prayer. Mary decided to sit at His feet, hanging on every word He said. I’m sure she was filled in every spiritual need she might have had.
If you need guidance on a work situation, ask Jesus! If you need guidance on a relationship, ask Jesus! If you want to buy something or want to go somewhere and you are not sure, ask Jesus! The reality is that He should ALWAYS be part of your life and life decisions and not only be the last resort when things do not work out for you.
So many seek Jesus only when they are in trouble, but when all goes well, they neglect their relationship with Him. If you only speak to your partner once a day/week/month, you will grow apart, and the relationship will ultimately become platonic. That deep connection, intended for marriage/relationship, gets lost somewhere along the line and for many it is difficult to recover from that. It is the same with our relationship with Jesus.
There is nothing wrong in being busy and working hard, like Martha. However, don’t allow it to be out of balance. If you get too busy to rest, and spend quality time with Jesus and your family, red lights will start to flash and something or someone will be deprived. That is a sign that you must STOP, take stock, and make a change.
Start and end your day with Jesus. As a matter of fact, as He is your every breath, let Him be part of your whole day. Speak with His Holy Spirit who lives inside of you, once you are saved in Christ. Jesus is after all, your Mighty Councillor, Advocate, Prince of Peace and so the list goes on. This is not something just for you, but you must also teach it and share it with your family and children. Remember Matthew 6:33 to seek first His Kingdom and righteousness and the rest will be added to you as well.
Ecclesiastes 3:1 – 2 says there is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens. So yes, there is a time to be a Martha, who rolls up the sleeves and get things done; but then there is also a time to be a Mary, to sit at the feet of Jesus and receive from Him, Godly peace and wisdom.
Give Jesus the first place in your life, by focussing your eyes and ears on Him, taking in what He has to offer through a deep relationship and His ever powerful Word. Make Him your first love, not your second or last and make sure to stay in love with Him. I am now 51 and Jesus still make my heart beats faster. Can you say the same?
I end with Proverbs 3:1 – 6 which says:
My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you peace and prosperity. Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the table of your heart. Then you will win favour and a good name in the sight of God and man. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.
Love in Christ
Princess K